There’s Always Light at the End of the Tunnel
Have You Embraced Death and Transformation?
It feels like this season of death and transformation has lasted an eternity, doesn’t it? Between the eclipses and Scorpio season, we’ve been working—whether consciously or not—with powerful energies that have called us inward. These energies have asked us to confront our deepest shadows, undergo symbolic deaths, and heal the parts of ourselves that remain repressed. All this so we can rise, phoenix-like, as our best and truest selves.
This week, that intense season comes to a close, making way for a new chapter. But that doesn’t mean it’s all over, nor that we can simply forget about it. Not at all—processes like this are ongoing, and each of us experiences them at our own pace. However, on a collective level, the energy is shifting. Within us, it will spark a burning flame of wisdom and curiosity, urging us to seek answers.
Igniting Sagittarius’ Fire
After every crisis, there’s a rebirth—like the sunrise that gently follows the night. This is where Sagittarius rises on the horizon, signaling a new phase.
Once we’ve delved into our darkness and brought it to light, it’s time to ask questions. To reflect on what triggered the crisis, what brought us to that moment. And then, the energy of Sagittarius ignites within us—the explorer, the adventurer, eager to find truth, to seek out new experiences, to discover a broader perspective. This energy is built on faith in life, on trust in an invisible net that’s always there to catch us.
Clarity and Understanding
This week, the Sun enters Sagittarius, accompanied by Mars—our inner warrior—and Mercury, the voice of our rational mind. This intense fire combination clears a path for us to dive into learning, exploring, and embracing our role as philosophers of our own lives. It offers clarity and a wider perspective on recent events.
But beware of extremes—don’t let this fiery energy tip into exaggeration or fanaticism. When we’re reckless or dogmatic, our wings can easily burn. Instead, Sagittarius invites us to open our minds, as Miguel Ruiz suggests in The Fifth Agreement: listen with an open heart, nurture curiosity, and allow ourselves to see our wounds as gateways. Through this process, we discover what we must release in order to construct the life we truly desire.
The Hero’s Journey
In my previous articles, I’ve been sharing pieces of this universal journey we all undertake at some point. I’ve talked about how listening to the call for transformation years ago brought me to where I am now, writing to you.
Looking back, I can see how Sagittarius’ energy saved me. It gave me the strength to climb out of the darkness and into the light. My curiosity to understand what had happened to me led to incredible experiences—ones I wouldn’t trade for anything. And it was Sagittarius’ energy that awakened my inner wisdom, my faith in life, and my trust in the process.
In my last article, we explored how the journey into the depths awakens our inner power, preparing us for the ultimate challenge we must face to claim our reward. Today, we continue that journey.
10. The Road Back
After experiencing symbolic death, rebirth, and receiving the gift of transformation, my first instinct was to share everything with the world. I was filled with wonder at what I had discovered about myself and life, eager to help others see it too.
But my road back wasn’t what I had imagined. Returning to my “normal” life, I quickly realized that those around me didn’t understand—or even care about—what I had experienced. Some laughed, others dismissed my excitement. My initial joy and enthusiasm slowly faded into confusion, bitterness, and sadness. I couldn’t understand why others didn’t want to change, even when they were clearly unhappy. It seemed like they chose pain and complacency, and for a time, this broke my heart.
I went through many emotions during this phase. What began as a desire to share turned into apathy and isolation. I withdrew from social gatherings and devoted myself to solitary study and meditation. These were hard times—breaking old patterns and reshaping my life required tough decisions, losses, and grief. But I wouldn’t change any of it, even knowing the cost.
Let me remind you of something crucial: you are the most important person in your life. If you’re not okay, you can’t give anything to anyone else. And those who can’t understand or support your journey may simply need to walk their own path, apart from yours.
11. The Hero’s Resurrection
In the midst of my solitude, I had a realization. I saw how I’d cut myself off from the world and how, just as I felt judged by others, I was judging them for not seeing life as I did. That’s when I decided to embrace others as they were while also reclaiming my right to be myself.
I returned to social settings, this time speaking my truth—even when it was uncomfortable. I found my voice again and began respecting both myself and others.
I also confronted my lingering need to “save” others, realizing that this urge stemmed from a place of control rather than love. By trying to convince others of my truth, I was acting as though I held all the answers. This was a hard lesson, but it showed me how easily I could fall into silent forms of violence, like judgment and superiority.
Once again, I stood at a threshold: I could retreat into isolation or let go of my need to control and save others. I chose to move forward, to live my own life fully.
12. Returning with the Elixir
And so, I began practicing compassion and patience—first with myself, then with others. I learned that everyone has their own pace, their own method, and their own choice about whether or not to pursue personal growth.
I realized that I could only help others by being an example, not by trying to change them. And I chose to focus on what I could control: myself.
When I let go of trying to “fix” others, I matured. I became responsible for my own well-being. And while I still occasionally fall into the trap of wanting to “save,” I now catch myself more quickly and work through it.
The sweetest reward is seeing my own growth and feeling at peace with my path. It’s knowing that while challenges will always arise, I have the strength to face them because my inner power is limitless.
The sweetest reward is transforming my wounds into tools that help others. It’s knowing that if I can do it, so can you.